One easy thing to help with your relationship with your wife or husband is to get out alone. I took my wife out to Outback Steakhouse last night. We got a sitter for my son and we had adult time. We talked and had fun. you might be thinking I'm married and have a kid I don't need to go on dates. Wrong, It is a great help to the relationship especially if things feel stale. Do what you can, even if its an hour alone for coffee to keep in touch with your spouse. You will not regret it.